The Month of Love… but Do You Know the Keys to a Lasting Relationship?

 

It’s the month of love. Cupids and arrows fill the air, but we know that over 50% of all marriages fail, so tonight we’ll focus on ways to enhance relationships to increase the statistical likelihood of making your relationship fulfilling and enduring.

· 50 % of first marriages end in divorce

· 2/3 of all second marriages end in divorce

· 75% of all third marriages end in divorce

 

Why do so many marriages fail?

· Statistics shows that we enter relationships with poor skills for maintaining relationships

· People need to learn “how” to love each other

· Lasting marriages involve commitment, communication, and accommodation

 

What do studies show are the proven building blocks in a couple’s intimacy?

· Studies at Stanford University show that the simple act of spending quality time together and talking enhances intimacy

· Humor: research shows that partners who make each other laugh are happier, in fact, it also shows that women typically search out men who make them laugh

· Doing something new. A Florida State University study shows that people who do new things, and plan adventures together tend to heighten a couple’s intimacy and vulnerability with each other

· Multiple research studies show that practicing gratitude and kindness in relationships enhances intimacy and bonding. Kindness, accommodation and forgiveness are three keys to strong relationships for couples.

· Commitment. Purdue University studies show that those who believe that their partner’s commitment is unbreakable have stronger relationships and increased intimacy.

· Taking control. Partners who really work on enhancing their relationships on a continuous basis, and who indicate that working things vs evading problems have more enduring relationships and those in which they feel will end in continued success.

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