6 Essential Requirements for a Healthy Relationship

Being in love isn’t the only thing that creates a happy and enduring relationship. Statistics show that almost one-half of all marriages end in divorce.  This staggering statistic illustrates that the art of finding and maintaining healthy relationships might be an elusive commodity.

What is the most commonly forgotten element of a healthy relationship?  Surpassingly, the answer is quite simple.  You must learn to love yourself before you can love someone else.  Anytime you are not connected with yourself, or find yourself “lost” in a relationship, you can be assured of unhappiness.

 Here are the 6 Key Elements of a Healthy Relationship

  1. A relationship encourages individuality. Healthy relationships encourage partners to have their own interests, friends, and can have time of separation without fear of abandonment.
  2. A healthy relationship invites growth. Healthy relationships are ever changing and bring new ideas, concepts, friendships, sharing new interests, and learning.  If the growth stops, the relationship will become stagnant, boring, and distant.
  3. A healthy relationship embraces good communication. It is a relationship in which it is safe to express feelings of all types, in an appropriate manner.  Healthy relationships allow space to discuss your fears, your hurt, your grief,anger, and disappointment in a non-threatening way.
  4. It is a relationship that builds self-esteem. Healthy relationships make us feel good about who we are as a person.  It is characterized by living with your best friend, your cheerleader, and the person who builds you up.
  5. It is a relationship that is built on a strong commitment to resolution. Healthy relationships, which are enduring,  are ones that find ways to negotiate, compromise, and handle conflicts and adversity.
  6. A relationship is built on the 5 to 1 principle: Research indicates that in a healthy and enduring relationship, the partners give five compliments, statements of appreciation and positive comments to every one negative statement. Try it and you will see amazing change!